Usually they want the person to tie them up and have thier way with them, spank them, or just tell them what to do.They get off on being out of control for a few moments and never really tell anyone they know which is why they use online sites.When the opportunity to be in New York together occurred, I cautiously asked her if she wanted to go to a BDSM club.
We got our drinks and found a circular sofa that was empty and sat down. Caitlynn then asked Pat if she was going to play tonight.
I wondered if she took part in this kind of play to please me or did she really get into it?
Yet, I couldn't ignore how she reacted to being spanked, paddled, or bound in some way.
***KNOW THIS - "BDSM girls are extremely serious about thier fantasies!
They are not your typical surfer you find on dating sites or chat rooms in that they don't play games.