If a guy’s scared you’ll leave him, he’d do anything to manipulate you into staying.Insecure men like controlling their women because of their own shortcoming.[Read: The right way to have a perfect start to a new relationship] The mind of an insecure man It took me quite a few years to actually see what I was experiencing now and then with guys I date.Acknowledging the fact that you’re dating an insecure man is never easy.
But almost always insecurity is a trait that’s associated with men who have low self esteem.
He was an exceptionally great guy who loved me and treated me like a princess. A few months into the relationship, he thought my friends were a bad influence on me.
I felt the same way too and decided to spend less time with my friends. It was more like he was concerned about me and cared for me.
But as the months start to roll by, you’d see that the advice would start to turn into sulking commands and manipulative pleas to arm twist you into doing what he wants.
Unfortunately, you’ll never see the signs or the real face under the mask of niceness until you’re ready to end the relationship or have already broken up with him.