And since nerves can sabotage your efforts and make you sound choppy or high-pitched, take some slow, deep breaths before you head out on your date.“It will relax you and automatically lower the pitch of your voice,” Reiman says. When you’re with her, try to make her feel like she’s the only person in the room.Repeat after me: I love being around beautiful women. One thing that we see over and over in surveys after someone takes a Love Systems Bootcamp/Day Game Workshop and learns how to qualify women is “now I can finally raise my standards and stop settling”.She doesn’t want to settle either – so don’t make her feel like she’s settling when she meets you. If you see an attractive woman and want to meet her – you’re not the first man to try. Here’s what 99% of men do: Try to get over their approach anxiety and eventually approach the girl.If she gives you her number, it is because she is interested in hearing from you. Nothing is less appealing than pushiness and/or insecurity…I am posting this because I met a wonderful guy (but a 4 in looks) who in 24 hours went from charming and interesting to an insecure stage 5 clinger, propositioning and asking if I ‘found him attractive’.To make sure that doesn't happen, we reached out to dating experts to figure out what works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to catching her attention.
I get asked all the time questions like “does Love Systems work in [whatever country] or just in the U. ” That’s pretty funny to me because I’m not American and almost no one involved in Love Systems at the beginning was American or living in the U. The real question 10 years ago should have been “OK you crazy guys from the UK, Australia, Germany, etc. Culture will impact what he does with those instincts, but they’re there. A “10” in Hong Kong has much more in common with a “10” in London than she does with a “4” back home. Because if beautiful women tend to have the same biological instincts around the world, then they respond to the same things.Just like you wouldn’t go back to settling for women you’re not attracted to after you get the skills from a Love Systems bootcamp, a beautiful woman isn’t likely to settle when she gets attention from lots of different men. Men who understand how to flirt and how to seduce a woman without awkwardness. Even if she looks busy or like she doesn’t want to meet anyone – if she’s at a bar, club, party, or somewhere else where people meet her – you’re not going to get any points for being “respectful”.It may feel that way sometimes, but beautiful women do not get dressed to go out in public for the sheer pleasure of rejecting men. All you’ll get is a birds-eye view when another Love Systems-trained man approaches her, starts flirting, and shows how to get women. It’s been proven more times than I can count, but WHY?We had been texting constantly, isn’t that a big enough hint that I’m interested? She’s beautiful, funny, intelligent, and doesn't seem to be out-of-her-mind crazy. Nothing's worse than getting shoved into the friend zone or getting so nervous to impress that you scare her away indefinitely.