However, you limit your opportunity to meet singles if you take such a narrow approach.The best way to break into a large singles group is to get involved in their activities.
If they can introduce you to someone they know is mature, then thank them and go out on the date but continue to guard your heart until you get to know that individual yourself.
A large church can be especially helpful if it has a singles ministry.
If you attend a church that doesn’t have a singles group, ask whether it has other activities, such as singles Bible studies, monthly socials, or retreats.
Church attendance does not prove that a person is a Christian.
Furthermore, professing to be a Christian does not guarantee relational maturity or a willingness to love sacrificially. Many singles with bad intentions purposely hide out in Christian groups to take advantage of the unsuspecting (Romans -18).