Anyway, any insight, opinions or direction you could give would be very much appreciated!
He swears he has not slept with anyone else, but who looks up craigslist ads without acting on them.
I pulled cell phone bills for the prior year and found a large amount of phone calls to 1.800 sex/chat lines. I then found web history of looking at ads on craigs list as well as various phone calls and text to random cell numbers.
The disturbing parts were the amount of time spent on the calls, and the fact that they went to local call lines. When I confronted my husband I did so with love for him as I understand addiction and did not want to make him feel ashamed or judged.
To say I was a good wife prior to my sobriety would be a lie, I was not in so many ways.
My husband and I had much more of a parent child relationship for many years, it certainly was not a healthy relationship.