Obviously how online dating works determines the results people get.
Well the odds of approaching a search for love in that way are just about the odds of a Las Vegas slot machine – they’re not really good.
You know the quality of our days, our nights, our children’s lives, our futures depend on the quality of our primary relationship more than perhaps anything else.
And yet, we’re sent out into the world with the most woefully inadequate skillset in how to find that love.
It’s very hard to make that happen in online dating because online dating guides people to ask this question – “who am I immediately most attracted to right now?
” We’re taught to look for the person who attracts us and then hope that they share our values and that they inspire us by who they are.