In fact, if you tell a guy what he’s doing that you don’t like and how it makes you feel, that’s one of the best ways to help the guy get where you’re coming from.
I would say a good rule is to never assume your guy knows the things he’s “supposed” to know or “should” know without you telling him. Now, I want to make a point here because this is usually the place where jaded women will say, “Of course not! ” To that point, guys know plenty and we really do our best. what made our last girlfriend happy sometimes is to give us clues that are extremely visible-from-space obvious.
My ex broke up with me last month after being together for over a year.
Avoid those words and you’ll have much fewer arguments.
🙂 There’s nothing wrong with sharing how you feel with a guy.
Can you give me a reason that would help me understand why this keeps happening? I would say go for understanding, don’t go for resolution.
When you put it to him like that, you’re not blaming him, you’re just telling him how you feel and asking for an explanation you can understand.